Ten of Wands
Put something down. You cannot carry all of it and still get anywhere.
The Ten of Wands is carrying too much. You took on more than the load allows and it is squeezing the enjoyment out of everything. Hand something over, cut something, or put something down entirely.
Reversed, a weight is coming off, or you're refusing to pick up something that was never yours. You're learning where the limit is. The relief is close.
Unspoken resentment about who does what is straining this. Say out loud what each of you is carrying.
You are overloaded and heading for burnout. Delegate, cut hard, or renegotiate what you agreed to.
Wands are fire: drive, work you chose, the thing you want to make happen.
Draw it in a spread, with a question.
A card on its own says less than a card in a position. Celestine lays it out and reads it with your chart.